The first two weeks at CIMBA are orientation weeks where we have different seminars and stuff. Starting the first full day here we had two days of classes. After the second day of classes I started LIFE. I might have told some of you about LIFE but I probably didn't describe it very well so I am going to try my best to do it now. Where to begin...? Well LIFE is described as leadership boot camp and is an optional program here at CIMBA. You have to do it if you want to participate in LEAP which is a semester-long goal-setting type of program. I decided to do both of these because I heard they were a good way to get to know people and were good for your resume. In the hours leading up to LIFE everyone was talking about what they had heard about it which made everyone pretty nervous. Everyone was saying that they make you cry and stuff.
LIFE finally began and the first 3 hours consisted of sitting in a classroom talking about neuroscience and social experiments. At that point we all kind of thought it was going to be 2 and a half days of classroom lecture...boy, were we wrong. At the end of the 3 hours we were dismissed to go to dinner but told to arrive 10 minutes early. At 6:50 we all sat down in the cafeteria waiting for something to happen and in walked 5 scary looking Italians dressed in all black. They had the most serious faces. The 5 of them sat down at a table, stood up and left. Everyone started laughing because we had no idea what was going on. About 5 minutes later they came back and yelled "You may eat now." We got our food and when we got back to the dining room they were pretty much finished already and left. One of the scary Italians stayed behind and told us to be outside a certain room at 8 and then singled out one student to be there 10 minutes earlier. This is when our laughter stopped and we all became terrified. From then on I was convinced this was some social experiment and even contemplated emailing my social psych professor back home.
We got to the room at 8 where we were given assigned seats in a "horseshoe" formation and name tags with Mr. or Ms. and our last names. One of the rules was that we had to call each other by last name only... also we weren't allowed to make any life-changing decisions for 2 weeks after LIFE. As we found our seats they yelled at us that it was "okay to move quickly" which has now become a common saying among the other CIMBA students. After we sat down we were given 1 minute to prepare a 3 minute speech on open-mindedness. When they announced this I literally froze. I hate public speaking and only 1 minute of preparation???? YIKES! I would have loved to see the look on our faces. We all gave our speeches and according to the LIFE trainers all failed to meet the criteria of speaking with power, conviction, enthusiasm, passion, projection and stand in our power stance. When we failed, the LIFE trainers (who by the way "projected" aka yelled the entire 2 and a half days) told us we had chosen to fail ourselves.
We did a bunch of other speeches that night but it is all a blur. At the very end they lit candles and played calming music. We had a reflective circle and wrote in journals. We were then dismissed and told to be back at 6:55 the next morning. We didn't get back to our rooms until 1 and only got 5 hours of sleep which was awful. I was sick (surprise, surprise) and we were all jet lagged.
The next day our first activity was to pretend we had won $100,000,000 and you literally wouldn't pass unless you went completely nuts and everyone had to cheer. Apparently we woke up all the non-LIFERS who must have been so confused about what was going on. I knew there was no way I could do this twice and you had to keep going until you passed. I just let go and went for it and thankfully passed. I was so relieved. Later that afternoon we did some more speeches, stared into each other's eyes and worked on getting into the flow. We also did a visualization exercise but most of us were so tired we fell asleep...oops.
Later that night was probably the most intense part of LIFE. We learned how to focus our chi. Then we were given wooden boards and had to write what our barrier to leadership was. We also had to write 3 things that would happen once we break that barrier. We had to sign a waiver saying we wouldn't sue anyone if we got hurt which was a little scary. Then we had to prepare to break our boards/barriers. We sat awhile until the first person decided to go and succeeded. Everyone eventually succeeded even if it took more than a few tries...aka me haha. I pretty much had a broken hand afterwards which was pretty embarrassing. For the next activity we had to close our eyes and receive hugs and then switch. This was obviously a very uncomfortable activity for me since I don't deal with hugging well. The rest of the night was kind of about emotions and stuff.
The next day which was thankfully the final day of LIFE was when we had our 2 "final exams." For the first exam we had to give a 5 minute speech about how we would make a difference. We literally had to "project" at the top of our lungs and run around. We also had to cheer each other on or else the person going would fail. It literally felt like a football game. The energy in the room was crazy and when someone wasn't cheering or didn't have energy it really made a difference. It was really exhausting and we all almost passed out. When it was my turn I knew there was no way I could go twice so I just went for it. The content of this speech wasn't really important. You honestly couldn't even hear what anyone was saying. The point was to get into the flow and speak with power, passion, conviction, enthusiasm, etc. Thankfully I passed and afterwards we were dismissed and told to change into business casual clothes.
We came back from lunch dressed up and ready for our final exam. It was the projection test where we had to memorize this poem and project it across the room while everyone was cheering. We all passed and were FINALLY done with LIFE. We had graduation which we all joked and said it was more satisfying than high school graduation. Overall I'm glad I did LIFE even though it sucked during it. I really did get close to my LIFE group which made the start of the semester a little easier. That night the whole program went out and celebrated finally being done and reunited with each other which was really fun.
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Liz, Sarah and I at the market in Crespano |
The next day we went to the "mall" nearby to get essentials. There was a giant Walmart-like store where we got school supplies and stuff. We also had our first Italian gelato which was delicious but I must say no different than the gelato in Cherry Creek North. The mall is in Castelfranco which is not at all touristy so no one spoke English. It was our first real Italian experience which was kind of fun.
On Sunday we went to the market in Crespano which is about a 20 minute walk. They literally have everything you want/need including real food. We loaded up on fruit and got some chicken kebabs which were delicious. I really hope I will have another opportunity to go the Sunday market this semester.
The next day we had the DaVinci Challenge which is the low ropes course. I have done a ton of ropes courses in my life but this was definitely the most intense. We had to do tons of lifting people and one of the activities was that we had to get our team over a 20 foot wall. I never thought it would be possible but we did it in 2 and half minutes. It reminded me a lot of cheerleading because we basically stunted people over the wall. It was actually pretty fun but all of us girls had huge bruises from being thrown over the wall.
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The wall. Photo by Michael Dodd |
The rest of the week we had some more classes and did our KT decision making classes while another group did LIFE. It was really boring but we got through it pretty quickly and finished just in time for our first weekend away which I will post about soon. Sorry this is such a long post but LIFE is too complicated to just briefly mention. I will try to keep things shorter next time.